Saturday, March 23, 2013

Parent Volunteer to Xuan's National Heritage Tour : Mar-13




class sitting at the corridor after briefing, waiting to board the bus
I never thought I would have the chance to play parent volunteer with Xuan anymore.. afterall she is in P6 this year.  Hence it was a pleasant surprise when Xuan came home one day to say her teacher was looking for parent volunteers to accompany the class on their National Heritage Tour to Little India!
2nd-stop briefing by tour guide, on betel leaves and such ..
This Hindu god protects children by scaring midwives to do a good job ..
Recess break @tekka market ..
My brunch of 'local' fare - roti prata and coconut drink !

Xuan's friends - Megan, QiMin, Jamie, Antonia; Georgia's mum
Xuan's other friends ..
Everyone must cover head before entry into Sikh temple, a sign of respect
Singapore's main Sikh temple
Although I am by and large available as a SAHM, arrangements still have to be made as my morning duty is to bring En to school and Xuan's class is visiting Little India in the morning too.  I was so looking forward to the excursion after Pa agreed to bring En to and from school that day!!

On that exciting morning, I had to be in Xuan's school before 8am.  Juz as I was all fired up, En was equally charged -- she could not wait for her yeye to bring her to school and wanted to be the earliest that morning!!  Well, she did arrive early in school, even before the school gate opened and received the children!

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In all, there were two other mums and one dad parent volunteers who went with 6R7.  It was the school's first trip and two classes went that morning..

The buses alighted us outside the Little India MRT station where we began our guided heritage tour by the Indian guide.

We walked past rows and rows of closed shops.  The guide had wanted to show us how to put on a sari in one of the sari shops but all the shops were still closed at 9+am in the morning. After some more stories on the Indian and Hindu culture, the guide brought us to a Hindu temple of goddess.

We learnt that amongst Hindu temples, some worship gods and others worship goddesses.  Even the animal statues on top of the temple are differentiated, some male and some female, depending if it is a god or goddess temple!

There were a couple of pretty scary deities in the temple.  The guide explained that these gods are supposed to protect little children and the gory scenes were depicted to deter midwives from harming the little ones..

After putting on our shoes, the next stop is Tekka Market, where we can tuck into Indian food for our recess break!  Most of us had different versions of roti prata as that is Indian food.  Some of the children even took teh tarik or bandung drink, absolutely soaking in the Indian ambience!

I thought it was almost time to return to school after the prata.. well, we boarded the bus but it was not headed back to school yet, one more stop -- the Central Sikh Temple.  To prepare to enter the temple, all of us must tie a scarf on our heads.  "It's a sign of respect." we were repeatedly told.

The Sikh temple visit is MY highlight of the trip.  I have always been intrigued by this big and clean-looking building as I rode past it in the bus frequently in my school days.  Over the years, the temple has been revamped and given a new look.. yet I have always wondered how it looks on the inside.  At last, I knew!

First of all, the temple is really as clean on the inside as it looks on the outside!  There is no statue or deities or any seeming object of worship!  In fact, its cleanliness is comparable to our Soka centres, juz that there are more warmth and cosiness in our Soka centres.

Before we were led into the main prayer hall on the second floor, we were congregated for a briefing by the temple in charge.  He introduced the Sikh religion and its origin.  Essentially, the Sikhs abide by the Holy Book, which was written by 10 gurus who lived in different periods.

The one thing I was most impressed with is that the Sikh belief regards men and women as equals.  Even women having their period are able to enter and participate in the prayers!  As a Nichiren Buddhist, of course I am completely at ease with men and women being equal, but having came straight from a Hindu temple, I am all the more impressed with this small group of Indians with such a different philosophy from the Hindus!

We were first given a tour in the communal kitchen and dining area.  As the word communal suggests, anyone can walk into the kitchen and start to cook for other people; similarly, anyone can walk into the dining area and eat the cooked food, free of charge, even if you are not a Sikh.  As everyone there is on a voluntary basis, one is expected to put back his tray after his meal.

The worship hall is on the second floor.  An unexpected sight greeted us -- a pretty large water feature, a small waterfall pool in fact!

Their worship hall is very big and round and clean!  In fact, it is rather bare too, except for the pavilion which 'houses' the Holy Book, a little rostrum, a little stage where two or three drummers can sit down and strum.

I thoroughly enjoyed the tour of the Sikh temple and introduction of the Sikh faith.  Although that Sikh in-charge told us anyone can enter the temple as long as they cover their heads, I don't think I will lay foot into this nice place again.. (^_^)

At the end of the Heritage Tour and back into HIPS, I was thoroughly exhausted..  Xuan's form teacher, Ms Martina Lim, is a very sincere lady.  She asked four students in the class to make four different Thank You cards for the four parent volunteers and made everyone in the class, including the form and Chinese teachers sign on it.  Hehee.. Xuan drew one of the cards.  No wonder Xuan was so mysterious a few days back, asking for permission to do water painting for a card yet refusing to tell me for who and what the card is for...  Well, the one I received was drawn by Georgia.  (: 

A half-day well-spent indeed!!
Communal kitchen in the Sikh temple on first floor .. it's open to all
On the second floor, walking towards the main hall.. guess what they look at?
The children are looking at this!

children peering at Holy Book behind the Sikh ..
the Holy Book, written by 10 gurus, which everyone can go up to read ..

front: the Holy Book; back: the very clean and almost bare hall ..


the children receiving the sacred food outside the hall ..
where the Holy Book rests every evening after the 5th prayer



Thursday, March 14, 2013

Qiqi good deed : Mar-13

Sometimes amazing things just happen in our lives, they can be good or bad things happening beyond our control, however, more importantly are our reactions towards them which determine our personal quality and character.

Recently Qiqi encountered an ‘amazing’ event in her school... when she entered the washroom one evening, she was shocked to discover a pile of poop on the floor.  She and her company were so amused that they started taking photos on the mess and wondered how it could possibly happened.  After overcoming the ‘surprise’, she reacted amazingly too... by deciding to clean up the mess as the cleaners had left for the day and it would be too smelly for anyone to use the washroom the next day.  So, along with a friend, they used the water hose to  flush and clean the poop away.

Will you clean this?

We are pretty impressed by Qiqi’s ability to react  to this incident positively regardless of the ‘unfavourable’ circumstance, an asset which is definitely valuable in her life.  As Buddhism always teaches us, it is through all the challenges we encountered and overcome which made us a stronger and better person. 

Shin Yang is so proud of Qiqi that she SMS to the radio station to praise her own daughter..  listen to the sound track below.

Sunday, March 10, 2013

Miss Irritating : Mar-13

Some characters in a person are probably inborn and accordingly to buddhism, closely linked to one's Karma and the 9 consciousness. One special character Qiqi possessed is her ability to irritate people.  She enjoys disturbing peaceful moments of others, and has been extremely creative and successful in this area of expertise.  During pre-school, she even suffered a eye-black because she got restless after her homework and start going around to disturb her classmates; one of them got so upset that he rewarded her with a punch.  However, i think if you have a passion and enjoy doing something, you will just continue and excel.  Up to date, Qiqi never stops irritating people and still enjoying them... The most recent case, she gets so noisy at home that we need to put a stop with the masking tape.


Wednesday, February 20, 2013

Xuan receiving Medusave award : Feb-13

I was not sure when Ministry of Education had started this Edusave award programme in rewarding students who had performed well in their studies, since we have yet to have anyone receiving it.  However, Xuan had the honor to receive this award this year for her performance in 2012, bringing the family proud.  Xuan received the Edusave Scholarship with a reward of a $350 cheque under her name.  Excitedly, she planned to use this to open a POSB personal saving account.



Sunday, February 10, 2013

Lion Dance Experience during CNY : Feb-13

Lion Dancing has always been a passion in me since young, but passion sometimes is difficult to sustain, particularly when various other priorities in life start to come into play.  Fortunately with Adrian and the team running the Xin-Yang troupe well, I have the luck to at least able to experience my 'passion' yearly.

During Hong and Dor's house warming in CNY, they have invited Xin-Yang to pluck green.  This year, the troupe brought a cute Fortune God which out-shine the lion dance performance.  Everyone is queuing up to take photo with this Big Headed cartoon-liked Fortune God, definitely something very refreshing and fun.

Family with Cartoon Fortune God
At Daniel's place, the gals also put up a good captivating LED lights lion dance performance. They are really skillful, with much hard-work incurred of course.  Then come the moment when the 'old uncles' itchy hands cannot resist anymore and want to be a part of the performance also... so there you go, a bunch of old mates, playing the instruments like they use to many years ago.

Uncles playing the instruments

LED Lion Dance Performance

Saturday, February 9, 2013

Chinese New Year Visiting, Part 2 : Feb-13

En was cranky upon reachin Alfred's pl but was soon cheered up by Alfred's 'chicken eggs' which En was holding in the picture..

Extremely sweet in her new CNY qipao!

Cousins together @Alan's kitchen..

Cousins together.. who's the odd one out??

the youngest generation in the Ho family.. @Alan's place


Friday, February 8, 2013

Chinese New Year Visiting : Feb-13

entertaining ourselves with camera phones @Di-gu's house
collage made for victor for first day CNY


Victor had not seen Aunt Grace for quite a while! (^_-)

Every Chinese New Year for the past 15 years, almost, is the same --visiting only begins after Victor's god-sister and her family visit us.  This year however, they did not visit us as Melina had fallen quite ill and was bedridden at home.  Hence we were out of the house earlier than usual, and managed to visit a few relatives we normally would not have made it.


Coincidence gathering @Gim-po's home
Qi with tigeress cousins Victoria & Magdalene, & younger siss @Kai-ma's

Dadajie & young tigeress' mummys
We finally made it to Kai-ma's house!  Even though Jiun, Pa, Hong and Dor have left, we also missed Ellis' family, but we did catch Dadajie, Jennifer and YinMei's family! (:

Hmm.. usually Ah Jia's house would be the 'fuel top-up' station.  Then Ah  Jia shifted in with Mummy..  Mummy's house became the stop where the girls would have proper food like porridge, rice or soup with braised CNY goodies like sea cucumber or pig's stomach soup or sweet soup.  After Ah Jia passed away, Mummy would still ask QQ and the maid to cook some food for the guests, but after Mummy passed on, I guess all of us, including Pa, went to Kai-ma's place for proper food!

As obviously, to be able and willing to cook is certainly a crowd-drawer!  As long as our parents are around, they are responsible for proper F&B.. however as we undeniably walked into our 40s, our parents are also getting old.  Mama is a wonderful cook and takes great care of our stomachs, but no doubt she cannot do that forever.  No doubt there is this need, someone has to take over.. but who? --i pondered deeply..  Cooking is so stressful, so tiring.. what does it take to do cooking effortlessly and amply? --i wondered, and I sure don't have it!

The gals couldn't get enough of Kai-ma's gui-ling-gao!

Kai-ma is so capable to whip out so much food alone for everyone!
We visited Di-gu, Gim-po, Kai-ma, Pa and Ah Neo in all for Day 1..

Victor in his come-let's-take-a-pic mood!




Even Bauble isn't spared.. cooperative Bauble!!

Yea.. it's contagious but fun!


We really should be doing this every year with everyone!!

Wednesday, February 6, 2013

Chinese New Year - 拜年 At Home : Feb-13


Family picture -- seven in all !!
The first day of Chinese New Year always begins with Mama's traditional Hokkien food - pig's offal mee suah with hard boiled eggs for everyone.  I remembered Mama used to give us two eggs each with a big bowl of mee suah. 
Victor & I 拜年 to Pa & Ma kneeling down - his family tradition!

Over the years with our feedback and also as the members of our family increased, the portion of mee suah became smaller and we now take one egg each.  This is welcomed actually as we would have more tummy space to fill in all the CNY goodies as we go visiting throughout the day!

Or could it be that inflation is the cause of our smaller portions?  Ma mentioned that for the same price, that box of mee suah used to have 10 servings.  This recent box juz bought, only has 6 servings!  Luckily Ma had a leftover serving from a previous box, otherwise one box cannot even feed the family!  Remarkable inflation isn't it?  And it did not stop at mee suah.. Nevertheless, we still have to celebrate CNY.. trying to spend on only absolutely necessary stuff.
Qi's turn to 拜年 to her grandparents..

Hopefully situation improves next year, but that seems hardly possible with the government's recent population increase announcement from the current 5.3m to 6.9m by 2030.. ):

To me, the equation is really simple..
demand increase (with more people),
supply change < demand change
=> price increase.  Signs of overcrowding and runaway inflation greet me daily especially as I go about my more-intensive CNY purchases.
En & Xuan's turn too ..

In a bid to divert attention from the super gloomy outlook, I find myself cleaning and clearing more nooks and corners of the house so as to make this CNY a good and meaningful one 'irregardless'.
Our lovely girls !!

Since don't-know-when, I think Victor and I have begun to cherish these traditional moments even more, and to better preserve memory this, we took pictures as we more diligently visited more relatives and friends this CNY!
We make our girls kneel to 拜年 to us too ..





A family silly moment ..



Monday, February 4, 2013

Chinese New Year Eve : Feb-2013

To compare Chinese New Year with the western Christmas celebration is very appropriate, at least very similar during the final preparation phase.  During this festive season, everyone will spend their money like crazy, buying gifts, goodies, new clothes and food just like there is no tomorrow.  And everyone will also be very busy when the day draws nearer; shopping, spring cleaning, change curtains, polish car and many more.. Sometimes it is quite difficult to comprehend this mentality, especially when shops are opened almost everyday even throughout the holidays and chores never seem to end anyway.  I think it could be due to the fact that we would like to reward ourselves for a good year spent and prepare to start a better year. 

Although we managed to adjust things by spreading some tasks throughout the year and adjust our expectations, there are still quite a bit to prepare for this CNY.  But I must admit we are coping and enjoying the season better every year.  I am also particularly impressed and grateful on how well Shin Yang has managed the house nowadays, she is really our sunshine.

One key event I enjoyed most every CNY is the reunion dinner on CNY eve, 'coz Mama will prepare all her best dishes we loved... Starting last year, we have also help to ease Mama's load by preparing a dish or two too.  This year, we prepare a Korean-like meat/veg wrap, prawn salad and fruits "捞起".  The open space between our houses serve us well for this feast... Yummy!!

Reunion dinner 2013

Reunion Feast 2013
Sisterly pose