Sunday, March 31, 2013

First world peace gongyo for 2013 : Mar-13

I cannot remembered when was the last time I had attended a World Peace Gongyo at HQ.  SSA used to have these monthly sessions many years ago but had since stopped and replaced by the weekly Sunday Morning Gongyo. Well, they were backed again this year and we attended the first session in March, this month! We thought the idea of having these World Peace was meaningful, at least on the perspective of praying for a better society and place for people to live in each part of the world.

We went there a little earlier to get our breakfast at Mac before proceeding for the chanting session followed by Sensei video which I definitely felt energized after that.  We also managed to take a shot with the cute handicraft Snake made for Chinese New Year at the lobby.  Such a good way to start a Sunday.

Saturday, March 23, 2013

Parent Volunteer to Xuan's National Heritage Tour : Mar-13




class sitting at the corridor after briefing, waiting to board the bus
I never thought I would have the chance to play parent volunteer with Xuan anymore.. afterall she is in P6 this year.  Hence it was a pleasant surprise when Xuan came home one day to say her teacher was looking for parent volunteers to accompany the class on their National Heritage Tour to Little India!
2nd-stop briefing by tour guide, on betel leaves and such ..
This Hindu god protects children by scaring midwives to do a good job ..
Recess break @tekka market ..
My brunch of 'local' fare - roti prata and coconut drink !

Xuan's friends - Megan, QiMin, Jamie, Antonia; Georgia's mum
Xuan's other friends ..
Everyone must cover head before entry into Sikh temple, a sign of respect
Singapore's main Sikh temple
Although I am by and large available as a SAHM, arrangements still have to be made as my morning duty is to bring En to school and Xuan's class is visiting Little India in the morning too.  I was so looking forward to the excursion after Pa agreed to bring En to and from school that day!!

On that exciting morning, I had to be in Xuan's school before 8am.  Juz as I was all fired up, En was equally charged -- she could not wait for her yeye to bring her to school and wanted to be the earliest that morning!!  Well, she did arrive early in school, even before the school gate opened and received the children!

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In all, there were two other mums and one dad parent volunteers who went with 6R7.  It was the school's first trip and two classes went that morning..

The buses alighted us outside the Little India MRT station where we began our guided heritage tour by the Indian guide.

We walked past rows and rows of closed shops.  The guide had wanted to show us how to put on a sari in one of the sari shops but all the shops were still closed at 9+am in the morning. After some more stories on the Indian and Hindu culture, the guide brought us to a Hindu temple of goddess.

We learnt that amongst Hindu temples, some worship gods and others worship goddesses.  Even the animal statues on top of the temple are differentiated, some male and some female, depending if it is a god or goddess temple!

There were a couple of pretty scary deities in the temple.  The guide explained that these gods are supposed to protect little children and the gory scenes were depicted to deter midwives from harming the little ones..

After putting on our shoes, the next stop is Tekka Market, where we can tuck into Indian food for our recess break!  Most of us had different versions of roti prata as that is Indian food.  Some of the children even took teh tarik or bandung drink, absolutely soaking in the Indian ambience!

I thought it was almost time to return to school after the prata.. well, we boarded the bus but it was not headed back to school yet, one more stop -- the Central Sikh Temple.  To prepare to enter the temple, all of us must tie a scarf on our heads.  "It's a sign of respect." we were repeatedly told.

The Sikh temple visit is MY highlight of the trip.  I have always been intrigued by this big and clean-looking building as I rode past it in the bus frequently in my school days.  Over the years, the temple has been revamped and given a new look.. yet I have always wondered how it looks on the inside.  At last, I knew!

First of all, the temple is really as clean on the inside as it looks on the outside!  There is no statue or deities or any seeming object of worship!  In fact, its cleanliness is comparable to our Soka centres, juz that there are more warmth and cosiness in our Soka centres.

Before we were led into the main prayer hall on the second floor, we were congregated for a briefing by the temple in charge.  He introduced the Sikh religion and its origin.  Essentially, the Sikhs abide by the Holy Book, which was written by 10 gurus who lived in different periods.

The one thing I was most impressed with is that the Sikh belief regards men and women as equals.  Even women having their period are able to enter and participate in the prayers!  As a Nichiren Buddhist, of course I am completely at ease with men and women being equal, but having came straight from a Hindu temple, I am all the more impressed with this small group of Indians with such a different philosophy from the Hindus!

We were first given a tour in the communal kitchen and dining area.  As the word communal suggests, anyone can walk into the kitchen and start to cook for other people; similarly, anyone can walk into the dining area and eat the cooked food, free of charge, even if you are not a Sikh.  As everyone there is on a voluntary basis, one is expected to put back his tray after his meal.

The worship hall is on the second floor.  An unexpected sight greeted us -- a pretty large water feature, a small waterfall pool in fact!

Their worship hall is very big and round and clean!  In fact, it is rather bare too, except for the pavilion which 'houses' the Holy Book, a little rostrum, a little stage where two or three drummers can sit down and strum.

I thoroughly enjoyed the tour of the Sikh temple and introduction of the Sikh faith.  Although that Sikh in-charge told us anyone can enter the temple as long as they cover their heads, I don't think I will lay foot into this nice place again.. (^_^)

At the end of the Heritage Tour and back into HIPS, I was thoroughly exhausted..  Xuan's form teacher, Ms Martina Lim, is a very sincere lady.  She asked four students in the class to make four different Thank You cards for the four parent volunteers and made everyone in the class, including the form and Chinese teachers sign on it.  Hehee.. Xuan drew one of the cards.  No wonder Xuan was so mysterious a few days back, asking for permission to do water painting for a card yet refusing to tell me for who and what the card is for...  Well, the one I received was drawn by Georgia.  (: 

A half-day well-spent indeed!!
Communal kitchen in the Sikh temple on first floor .. it's open to all
On the second floor, walking towards the main hall.. guess what they look at?
The children are looking at this!

children peering at Holy Book behind the Sikh ..
the Holy Book, written by 10 gurus, which everyone can go up to read ..

front: the Holy Book; back: the very clean and almost bare hall ..


the children receiving the sacred food outside the hall ..
where the Holy Book rests every evening after the 5th prayer



Thursday, March 14, 2013

Qiqi good deed : Mar-13

Sometimes amazing things just happen in our lives, they can be good or bad things happening beyond our control, however, more importantly are our reactions towards them which determine our personal quality and character.

Recently Qiqi encountered an ‘amazing’ event in her school... when she entered the washroom one evening, she was shocked to discover a pile of poop on the floor.  She and her company were so amused that they started taking photos on the mess and wondered how it could possibly happened.  After overcoming the ‘surprise’, she reacted amazingly too... by deciding to clean up the mess as the cleaners had left for the day and it would be too smelly for anyone to use the washroom the next day.  So, along with a friend, they used the water hose to  flush and clean the poop away.

Will you clean this?

We are pretty impressed by Qiqi’s ability to react  to this incident positively regardless of the ‘unfavourable’ circumstance, an asset which is definitely valuable in her life.  As Buddhism always teaches us, it is through all the challenges we encountered and overcome which made us a stronger and better person. 

Shin Yang is so proud of Qiqi that she SMS to the radio station to praise her own daughter..  listen to the sound track below.

Sunday, March 10, 2013

Miss Irritating : Mar-13

Some characters in a person are probably inborn and accordingly to buddhism, closely linked to one's Karma and the 9 consciousness. One special character Qiqi possessed is her ability to irritate people.  She enjoys disturbing peaceful moments of others, and has been extremely creative and successful in this area of expertise.  During pre-school, she even suffered a eye-black because she got restless after her homework and start going around to disturb her classmates; one of them got so upset that he rewarded her with a punch.  However, i think if you have a passion and enjoy doing something, you will just continue and excel.  Up to date, Qiqi never stops irritating people and still enjoying them... The most recent case, she gets so noisy at home that we need to put a stop with the masking tape.