Thursday, December 31, 2009
Mini Bathtub for HDB : Dec-09
Sunday, December 27, 2009
Potluck @ Mummy's : Dec-09
This is the very first time where most of Mummy's 'long-lost' siblings get together to meet Mummy. Some nephews who are keen to meet their 四姨 were also present. Obviously, Mummy's biological family was a big one and my grandparents there actually gave birth to 17 or 18 children altogether!! So although Mummy was No. 9 amongst them, most of the Aunts and Uncles present are actually younger than Mummy except for 大姨 and 大舅.
Friday, December 25, 2009
X'mas Eve Dinner : Dec-09
Thursday, December 24, 2009
A nice X'mas gift : Dec-09
Tuesday, December 22, 2009
Tour Bus Trip to Orchard Road : Dec-09
The day had quickly arrived and we broaded the top-less bus to the super-crowded part of Singapore, Orchard Road. The lights are very impressive, as well as the human and traffic jams.
Monday, December 21, 2009
Children's Party : Dec-09
The party theme this year is "Camp GSK", where there are multiple stations for the kids to role play a vocation. The kids got the chance to become an artist, policeman, scientist, doctor, chef and musician. Each station will provide the kids with a small task to complete.
Overall, the kids have a great time. Qi and Xuan got first in their respective age group and En'en got so tired after so much activities that she just felt asleep on the hotel's sofa.
Sunday, December 13, 2009
A Fruitful Afternoon @ Pasir Ris Park : Dec-09
Our family has never been the very outdoor-ish kind and seldom engage in sporty activities. Cycling to the girls, has always been playing on the tricycle when they were younger and pedalling on the 4-whkneel training bicycle when they got older. The girls have also no urge to learn cycing until they saw their cousins pedalling away effortlessly on the two-wheeled during the last chinese new year.
Despite the girls' enthusiasm for this cycling outing on a weekday, getting the girls to cycle after we were there was no mean feat. First, there was the sunny weather; then they could not pedal fast or long enough before they screamed i'm-tired and refuse to pedal further. And of course, there were the usual falling off the bikes and scratches and dark marks on legs. After much coaxing, negotiating, threatening and cajoling, the girls were finally enjoying their ride.
After a long while of pedalling on the tandem bicyle and a break at the playground, Qiqi was finally able to pedal the tandem bicycle away all by herself! She got so excited that she immediately wanted to return to the bicycle stall to change for a two-wheeler. Well, she got her wish and before long, she was happily pedalling away all by herself. Although her bicycle had an affinity to the lamposts and dustbins along the way, that was all part of the learning-to-cycle process I thought. I was very proud of her and at the end of the 2 hours, we all had a good time, lots of vitamin D and a good appetite for a late lunch!
Saturday, December 12, 2009
Trey's first movie on sale : Dec-09
Jurong Bird Park : Dec-09
Monday, December 7, 2009
Standard Chartered Run : Dec-09
Xuan Xuan, the flower girl - Dec-09
Saturday, November 28, 2009
Snow City : Nov-09
I got my company's Science centre friends' card to get some discounts into the Snow City and after preparing ourselves for about 15 minutes, we were ready for some icy actions. Entering into Snow City, we were surprised by how small the place was, we could cover the place within 5 mins! The good thing was that the gals enjoyed the cold temperature and the snow slope which they could slide down. We barely stayed there for 30 mins, a damage for $50, mainly to clear the 'bug' away from me...
Saturday, November 21, 2009
Xuan's academic results for P2 : Nov-09
Xuanxuan has a very good form teacher this year and thoroughly enjoyed all his classes. She often repeats his jokes in class to us and also says he taught them beyond the school syllabus; she has learned so much more because of Mr Khoo. Xuan has always been conscientious in her school work and usually studied her Spelling and 听写 on her own. When she was tasked in class to identify the noise-makers because she was one of the better-behaved students, she took her responsibility very seriously and brought her notebook everywhere. Similarly when she was made her group leader mid-term, she was very proud of her role and helped the weaker classmates in her group. When I met up with her teachers mid-year, I was pleasantly surprised that her teachers have absolutely nothing negetive to feedback to me!
We were very glad and relieved Xuan has settled in so well in her new class this year. That was not all; she even bettered herself in terms of results this year by being second in class and third in level for her Chinese language! (she was third in class last year) She has received 2 awards this year! Isn't it amazing?
Monday, November 16, 2009
Visit to Upper Pierce : Nov-09
Qiqi's Birthday : Nov-09
Qiqi had requested me to design a treasure hunt on her birthday this year. So i bought some little presents and hid them at 5 spots. She was still ok at her first clue but subsequently started to ask help from everyone. She was so tired after the hunt... :P
Sunday, November 15, 2009
Xuan completeing her elementary children's art : Nov-09
We have always been proud and enjoyed every single Xuan's art piece. We are sure to have the privileges to keep enjoying this more & more in the future. Keep it up, Xuan!
Saturday, November 14, 2009
En'en contacted HFMD : Nov-09
I had never seen En'en so grumpy before... she not only screamed and scolded everyone but also cried during her meals and in between her sleep. We were prepared to spend a good few sleepless nights taking care of her. Fortunately with the tender loving care from En'en's babysitter and also En'en's resilience, she was able to get overcome this HFMD surprisingly fast. Everyone was relieved that our youngest princess was back to her norm now... :-)
Tuesday, November 10, 2009
Energetic En'en@amusement park : Nov-09
It was only when we were returning home, En'en fell asleep in the car within seconds... after all, she's our little baby using all her energy enjoying the things she liked, and not realising how exhausted she already was... so sweet.
Monday, November 9, 2009
3rd Anniversary of Soka Women Glorious Victory Day : Nov-09
Wednesday, November 4, 2009
Sensei's Article : What is Happiness? : Nov-09
What is the purpose of life? It is to become happy. Whatever country or society people live in, they all have the same deep desire: to become happy.
Yet, there are few ideals as difficult to grasp as that of happiness. In our daily life we constantly experience happiness and unhappiness, but we are still quite ignorant as to what happiness really is.
A young friend of mine once spent a long time trying to work out what happiness was, particularly happiness for women. When she first thought about happiness she saw it as a matter of becoming financially secure or getting married. (The view in Japanese society then was that happiness for a woman was only to be found in marriage.) But looking at friends who were married, she realized that marriage didn't necessarily guarantee happiness.
She saw couples who had been passionately in love suffering from discord soon after their wedding. She saw women who had married men with money or status but who fought constantly with their husbands.
Gradually, she realized that the secret of happiness lay in building a strong inner self that no trial or hardship could ruin. She saw that happiness for anyone - man or woman - does not come simply from having a formal education, from wealth or from marriage. It begins with having the strength to confront and conquer one's own weaknesses. Only then does it become possible to lead a truly happy life and enjoy a successful marriage.
She finally told me, "Now I can say with confidence that happiness doesn't exist in the past or in the future. It only exists within our state of life right now, here in the present, as we face the challenges of daily life."
I agree entirely. You yourself know best whether you are feeling joy or struggling with suffering. These things are not known to other people. Even a man who has great wealth, social recognition and many awards may still be shadowed by indescribable suffering deep in his heart. On the other hand, an elderly woman who is not fortunate financially, leading a simple life alone, may feel the sun of joy and happiness rising in her heart each day.
Happiness is not a life without problems, but rather the strength to overcome the problems that come our way. There is no such thing as a problem-free life; difficulties are unavoidable. But how we experience and react to our problems depends on us. Buddhism teaches that we are each responsible for our own happiness or unhappiness. Our vitality - the amount of energy or "life-force" we have - is in fact the single most important factor in determining whether or not we are happy.
True happiness is to be found within, in the state of our hearts. It does not exist on the far side of some distant mountains. It is within you, yourself. However much you try, you can never run away from yourself. And if you are weak, suffering will follow you wherever you go. You will never find happiness if you don't challenge your weaknesses and change yourself from within. Happiness is to be found in the dynamism and energy of your own life as you struggle to overcome one obstacle after another. This is why I believe that a person who is active and free from fear is truly happy.
The challenges we face in life can be compared to a tall mountain, rising before a mountain climber. For someone who has not trained properly, whose muscles and reflexes are weak and slow, every inch of the climb will be filled with terror and pain. The exact same climb, however, will be a thrilling journey for someone who is prepared, whose legs and arms have been strengthened by constant training. With each step forward and up, beautiful new views will come into sight.
My teacher used to talk about two kinds of happiness - "relative" and "absolute" happiness. Relative happiness is happiness that depends on things outside ourselves: friends and family, surroundings, the size of our home or family income.
This is what we feel when a desire is fulfilled, or something we have longed for is obtained. While the happiness such things bring us is certainly real, the fact is that none of this lasts forever. Things change. People change. This kind of happiness shatters easily when external conditions alter.
Relative happiness is also based on comparison with others. We may feel this kind of happiness at having a newer or bigger home than the neighbors. But that feeling turns to misery the moment they start making new additions to theirs!
Absolute happiness, on the other hand, is something we must find within. It means establishing a state of life in which we are never defeated by trials and where just being alive is a source of great joy. This persists no matter what we might be lacking, or what might happen around us. A deep sense of joy is something which can only exist in the innermost reaches of our life, and which cannot be destroyed by any external forces. It is eternal and inexhaustible.
This kind of satisfaction is to be found in consistent and repeated effort, so that we can say, "Today, again, I did my very best. Today, again, I have no regrets. Today, again, I won." The accumulated result of such efforts is a life of great victory.
What we should compare is not ourselves against others. We should compare who we are today against who we were yesterday, who we are today against who we will be tomorrow. While this may seem simple and obvious, true happiness is found in a life of constant advancement. And the same worries that could have made us miserable can actually be a source of growth when we approach them with courage and wisdom.
One friend whose dramatic life proved this was Natalia Satz, who founded the first children's theater in Moscow. In the 1930s, she and her husband were marked by Soviet Union's secret police. Even though they were guilty of no crime, her husband was arrested and executed and she was sent to a prison camp in the frozen depths of Siberia.
After she recovered from the initial shock, she started looking at her situation, not with despair, but for opportunity. She realized that many of her fellow prisoners had special skills and talents. She began organizing a "university," encouraging the prisoners to share their knowledge. "You. You are a scientist. Teach us about science. You are an artist. Talk to us about art."
In this way, the boredom and terror of the prison camp were transformed into the joy of learning and teaching. Eventually, Mrs. Satz even made use of her own unique talents to organize a theater group. She survived the five-year prison sentence, and dedicated the rest of her long life to creating children's theater. When we met for the first time in Moscow in 1981, she was already in her 80s. She was as radiant and buoyant as a young girl. Her smile was the smile of someone who has triumphed over the hardships of life. Hers is the kind of spirit I had in mind when I wrote the following poem on "Happiness":
A person with a vast heart is happy.
Such a person lives each day with a broad and embracing spirit.
A person with a strong will is happy.
Such a person can confidently enjoy life, never defeated by suffering.
A person with a profound spirit is happy.
Such a person can savor life's depths
while creating meaning and value that will last for eternity.
A person with a pure mind is happy.
Such a person is always surrounded by refreshing breezes of joy.
Link http://www.ikedaquotes.org/what-is-happiness.html
Tuesday, November 3, 2009
First computer art-piece - 嗔 (Rage) : Nov-09
On the sketch book
I wasn't too satisfied with my sketch... Then i recalled during my army days, how we were using typewriters to type letters and how inreversible they are.... when computer with wordperfect was introduced later, it brought wonderful surprises to everyone... work were then able to be saved, reversed, erased.... and things just got easier, quicker and more perfect.
So I scanned this sketch into the computer, get a stylus pen and an artist software, and started to work on my very first computer art piece. It wasn't as difficult as i thought, and with the beauty of computer, i was able to reverse any single error and made the work more perfect. I thought the outcome was definitely many times better than the one i got on my sketch book.. :P
Computer art piece - Rage
Rage - The Daishonin wrote "Hell is a dreadful dwelling of fire" ("Letter to Niike", WND, pg 1026), and those who reside there experience pain and suffering, as if dwelling in the midst of fire. Also, in the above passage, he wrote, "Rage is the world of Hell." Rage here is characterized as frustration over one's complete loss of control as well as an extreme hatred for one's surroundings; this only intensifies an indivdual's suffering. Doomed to a constant state of agony, those in the world of hell can do nothing except wallow in their rage. The world of hell, then, is one of unmitigated misery, and whatever one experiences in that state only adds to his or her suffering.
Saturday, October 31, 2009
Halloween Card for our members : Oct-09
Friday, October 30, 2009
Ling's Birthday : Oct-09
Monday, October 26, 2009
En'en dancing to the beat : Oct-09
Friday, October 23, 2009
On a PSLE Marking Day : Oct-09
Mama's limited edition pineapple tarts cooked almost from scratch - we bought 5 pineapples and a packet of pineapple paste and came up with about 3 tubs of our family favourite goodies. Look at the tartlets, don't they simply look inviting and delicious??
Adding to the occasion, we also baked a beetroot cake - a pretty healthy one with lots of beetroot, dried cranberries, dried apricot, raisins and olive oil.
Phew~~ that used up a couple of packets of your flour, dear Nancy! ;)
Tuesday, October 20, 2009
风之画员 : Oct-09
Monday, October 19, 2009
Enen's YiLin Jeje's 21st Birthday : Oct-09
Yilin has invited Enen and family to her 21st birthday.. a Piglet birthday actually.. ;) The cake is so gorgeous!
Farewell Hi-tea for Dear Nancy : Oct-09
So a part-1 farewell hi-tea was held for her, and what's a farewell without a farewell gift right? Here's what we prepared for her part-1.. ;)
Sunday, October 18, 2009
Attending a Athletic Association Anniversay : Oct-09
Friday, October 16, 2009
Saturday, October 10, 2009
Mr Gan's Full Testimonial @ Zone Meeting: Oct-09
He was in such advanced stage of pancreatic cancer just half a year ago that his doctors and nurses called his present health state a miracle! Watch the clip to see for yourself.. :))
Part 1
Part 2
Friday, October 9, 2009
Our mooncake manufacturer : Oct-09
Her manufacturing process was almost 'out-of-control', she went on full afternoon and night shift for 3 days and even exploited "child-labour", working up to 1am! Qi and Xuan enjoyed the process utterly, Xuan even took out her note book to try to steal some of the secret "Aunty Nancy Recipe".
Shin Yang's hard work did not get wasted. For the first time after so many years, we have our own home-made mooncakes as gifts for our friends and relatives. We gave out in total 13 boxes of mooncakes! and that is 104 mooncakes!
Not only the numbers was amazing, the feedbacks were positive and encouraging. I am so proud of her... and she's already planning for next year's production!
Wednesday, September 30, 2009
Eunos Zone Discussion Meeting : Sep-09
For many months since the outbreak of the H1N1 flu virus, we do not have meetings. We have finally resumed some now but the discussion meetings are held at zone level and minimal preparation is required at the district (can't speak for the chapter la..) level. Nevertheless, our chapter has been tasked to run this zone meeting this month, so almost everyone who took to the stage, from the emcees to the speakers are familiar faces to our Eunos West members.
The wonderful benefit shared by Mr Gan is indeed the pride of our district and chapter leaders as we personally witnessed how he transformed from a sickly cancer-striken patient to someone who walks faster than us, laughs louder than us and whose eyes sparkle brighter than ours!
We enjoyed this meeting more than last month's. Hahaa.. .. guess being involved in the prep helps! ;)
Monday, September 28, 2009
En'en with our gadgets : Sep-09
Sunday, September 27, 2009
Publicity Shot for Creative Life : Sep-09
Wish for Mooncake Festival Fulfilled, Afterall : Sep-09
Although there is no public holiday to mark the occasion, the Mid Autumn Festival is one of my favourite times of the year. I simply love mooncakes, be it the traditional baked ones or the colorful and full-of-surprises snowskin ones. If you leave mooncakes in my house, sooner or later but surely, they will all be devoured by yours truly me, even if the rest of the family won't lay a finger on them because they are so sweet and so fattening.. To me, they are simply divine and so irresistible!
As the festival draws near and without ample preparation time, I thought I would have to wait till next year to accomplish my wish. But an enthusiastic and veteran baker - Aunty Nancy, 'jio' me to join her! Boy, am I excited!! Though Nancy claimed to be inexperienced too and has just learned from the more experienced bloggers, I am absolutely sure she has done her homework thoroughly and we were using only the most delicious and tested-and-tried recipes and method! Oh ya, Nancy's Princess Chloe was a great help as she is even more experienced than me. She even let me tried her rainbow 7-up snowskin mooncakes which were very yummy! ;) The unusual piglets were the brainchild of both Chloe and Qiqi.. I had a great time! Can't wait to do it all over again before this year's Mooncake Festival is over. And oh oh, did I mention that every single of the mooncake has a piece of gold.. golden eggyolk in it? That's the beauty - you get to put your favourite ingredient anywhere and everywhere you like! .. even in the snowskin ones!! ;P Hmm.. maybe I can attempt to cook my own lotus paste next year?
Saturday, September 19, 2009
"My imaginary buildings" : Sep-09
Monday, September 14, 2009
Mummy's Birthday Dinner : Sep-09
Even at the dinner, Mummy had been thankful that her life has been extended by more than 20 years due to the power of the Mystic Law, and that she would have no regrets if indeed her mission in this lifetime has come to an end. However two nights later as she was chanting, a strong determination surged - she wants to recover, for 100% she wants to recover! With this strong conviction and determination, I am sure Mummy will be victorious! I am sure this is not mere coincidence that Mummy has also just completed her very first million-daimoku campaign! Yipee!! :)))
See how all got so high during the dinner!? ;)
Sunday, September 13, 2009
En'en first swimming experiences : Sep-09
We tried again two days later, this time together with the good morning sun. En'en was able to enjoy more and stayed in the water for about 1/2 hr, walking almost everywhere around the children's pool.
Tuesday, September 8, 2009
En'en 拜拜 : Sep-09
Saturday, September 5, 2009
En'en snatching Xuan's bear : Sep-09
Our new toy, Canon videocam : Sep-09
I have been asking around before deciding on this Canon, HF200. The guy from Alan photo recommends this as it runs on SD card system, has good video image, good lens and most imptly, good price. Have not really try it out yet, but the price in Alan is actually more than $200 cheaper than in AudioHouse! Will soon be posting up some video shots...
Thursday, September 3, 2009
Xuanxuan's 1st Brownie Badge : Sep-09
Qiqi's Commendable Efforts for Teacher's Day : Sep-09
Not bad, the cookies did end up with their teachers eventually, even Mdm Han. Her papa was not so encouraging though, he asked the girls not to poison their teachers! ;)
Monday, August 31, 2009
My grey hair : Aug-09
And so, 4 hair cuts after my last dye, i was able to reveal all my grey hair i have. My recent decision in not dyeing my hair stirred many interesting responses among friends and family. Some have asked me why i had chosen to look so old when i'm not; some have admired my 'ash' color hair; some just stared so long at my hair before they asked "what happened?"; some like the 'fashion'; some encouraged me for not using the dye chemical; my hair-dresser commented "i doubt you could endure this for long", and another hair-dresser friend even seems very keen to immediately 'soaked' my head into pail of color.
Anyway, i feel fun about this little initiative because i am able to observe the variety of perspectives people could have over a single thing. To me, dyeing back my hair is just an hour job and i could do almost anytime i like, but to be able to observe so many responses? Like mastercard says, "Priceless".
大姨丈's 76th Birthday : Aug-09
Action City's Advertisements : Aug-09
Part 1
Part 2
Monday, August 24, 2009
Xuan Xuan's Birthday ~ 18th Aug : Aug-09
Mummy's Birthday ~ 13th Aug : Aug-09
Mummy has been a very good girl after the doctor discovered cancer again in her lymph nodes on her neck three months after her mastectomy. She has completely abstained from eating cancer-aggravating food, and in fact all her usual food to stop her cancer from spreading. This chocolate cake was also to encourage her to stay that way as she had a very unpleasant experience with chocolate cakes and since then has never eaten another chocolate cake!!?